http://www.wishtracker.net I wasn't sure if anyone had seen this site yet, but my family has been using it, and we love it. We setup our wishlists on the site. I can go in and see each member of my family's wish list, and mark an item as purchased or whatever. However, the person never sees what has been purchased, so the surprise is never ruined. I have found that this is a HUGE time saver, and I'm a lot less stressed about getting the perfect gift! Ha ha. Hope this helps someone!